Any half decent spanker will be adept at the experience around the actual punishment itself - it will be far more memorable and effective with proper build up and follow up. A good stern talking to, making the spankee stand up straight and look him in the face or making her sit quietly somewhere contemplating the wrongdoing and what might be about to happen. However, even if the physical punishment is threatened at this stage it's the point where the physical instrument to be applies is introduced that is potentially the most intimidating.
Or maybe he does that trick of making it seem he’s really serious this time as he roll his sleeves up and then does that thing where he makes the belt make a snapping sound and you’re just about ready to wet yourself.
Of course you can do some build-up with any instrument. Probably the cane comes closest because as well as going through the selection routine he can swish it through the air a few times. It’s harder to do so much with a paddle or a slipper and very hard to do much with a straight hand spanking. The good spanker will always find a way to have the spankee close to tears before he even starts, but the belt does seem to me to offer some of the very best opportunities.
And that’s where I think the belt has the advantage over every other instrument. You’re hoping against hope that you’re just getting told off and he might let you off without a spanking, although that’s what you got last time.
And then he begins to unbuckle his belt and the awful reality dawns – it’s going to be much more than a hand spanking this time. Perhaps you can’t take your eyes off the band of leather as it snakes through the loops on his trousers.
Or perhaps you have had to rely on your sense of hearing as he unfasten the buckle and slides the belt out – are you ears deceiving you?Surely he wouldn’t. Maybe you've got your head in your hands and hearing him enter the room you can’t resist a sneaky look between your fingers to see what he’s carrying.
Or maybe he does that trick of making it seem he’s really serious this time as he roll his sleeves up and then does that thing where he makes the belt make a snapping sound and you’re just about ready to wet yourself.
Maybe he makes a point of standing just where you’ll see that he’s folded the belt in half so it’s still very long and is going to really, really sting. Maybe he slaps it against his own palm a couple of times to get the weight of it right and you know that any moment know the noise will be coming from that same belt landing on your bottom.
Of course you can do some build-up with any instrument. Probably the cane comes closest because as well as going through the selection routine he can swish it through the air a few times. It’s harder to do so much with a paddle or a slipper and very hard to do much with a straight hand spanking. The good spanker will always find a way to have the spankee close to tears before he even starts, but the belt does seem to me to offer some of the very best opportunities.